Gossip.

There is something called emotional recession. It is a phase in your life where your emotions are experiencing hangovers. Your life doesn’t exactly look like what you planned, so in order to blur the reality, you take solace in discussing other people’s flaws. You call a pity party, invite two or three people depending on…

Choices.

I currently live in a regimented environment, and with environments of this nature comes rules and templates of ‘doing‘ and ‘being‘. There is an unvoiced and voiced modifying of behavior everyone in this environment has to undergo. Your behavior has to align to the code of conduct. I have broken the rules more times than…

Coventionally Incorrect.

I finally came to terms with the fact that I was conventionally incorrect the day I watched my mom strike a conversation about Yam with a woman she loathed. The delivery of the play was so flawless, the expertise in the delivery of the niceness so apt, the craftiness and performance of the whole conversation was…

Dear Diary: Conversations.

My pursuit of you is not tied to you meeting my needs. Teach me to know what is truly important. Teach me how to love you. Teach me how to live for you. Teach me how to view life. Teach me how see people. Teach me the difference between major and minor. School me on…

Purpose.

I have been a student of purpose for a while and the lessons I have gleaned especially in recent times have proven to be a great resource. Purpose has taught me the principle of selective availability and I in turn have had to communicate to my emotions same. For instance: I now carefully choose what…

Friendships, Seasons and Discernment.

I let go of a friend over a year ago. I knew the friendship had served it’s purpose and we both needed to move on. I knew early on that it was a seasonal friendship and so when it was time to move on, there was no fight or drama. It was an instant letting…