On Beauty and Compromises.

There are some places you go to in life where your beauty can be a slight disadvantage. The people you need to promote you into another level in that environment are partly used to seeing beautiful women with little to offer, so when you come on board, there is default hostility awaiting you. In places…

Some ‘Why Are You Like This’ Moments..

Some ‘Why am I Like This Moments’ I have had in recent times. On Mental Exhaustion I engage my mind more than any other aspect of my body.  At times with my permission and at other times without. I have a very hyperactive mind and taming it is a herculean task. Occasionally, I  go the…

Of Unintentional Mentoring and Being an Unintentional Mentor.

If only your mentors knew you were using their life to chart a new course. If only they knew that you observe them keenly. If only they knew that something you cannot define or explain draws you to them. If only they knew you were studying them. If only they knew that they are life…

Gossip.

There is something called emotional recession. It is a phase in your life where your emotions are experiencing hangovers. Your life doesn’t exactly look like what you planned, so in order to blur the reality, you take solace in discussing other people’s flaws. You call a pity party, invite two or three people depending on…

Opinions.

You are entitled to rights. You have a right to think. You have a right to come into your own and own your thoughts. You have a right to have opinions. You have a right to choose to air your opinions. You do not have a right to give your opinions when it is not solicited….