Decluterring.

  Once I find that I have to keep vouching for my intentions and explaining my actions over and over and over and over again, I know it is time to declutter. Once I have to rehearse our conversations and anticipate your responses in order to have my counter response ready before that soiree or…

Dear Diary: Just in Case I Mess Up…

Just in case I mess up, this is the kind of reality check I would expect from my bestie. The attention you want is unavailable so you seek succor elsewhere. Elsewhere is toxic and you know it but you are needy. The need for attention twisted your sense of dignity so you put your birth…